[dev-menu] Update `react-native-reanimated` to `2.9.1` (#18182)

# Why

Closes ENG-5411.
Closes ENG-5685.

# How

Run:
```
et vendor -c "[dev-menu] reanimated"
```
and adjust the vendoring

[dev-menu] Update `react-native-reanimated` to `2.9.1` (#18182)

# Why

Closes ENG-5411.
Closes ENG-5685.

# How

Run:
```
et vendor -c "[dev-menu] reanimated"
```
and adjust the vendoring script.

# Test Plan

- bare-expo with NCL ✅
- bare-expo with sandbox ✅

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