[ci][tools] fix react-native 0.73 compatibility [3/3] (#24020)

# Why

fix react-native 0.73 compatibility. this pr focus on fixing ci test-suite-nightlies.

# How

- [ci] use node 18 and jdk 1

[ci][tools] fix react-native 0.73 compatibility [3/3] (#24020)

# Why

fix react-native 0.73 compatibility. this pr focus on fixing ci test-suite-nightlies.

# How

- [ci] use node 18 and jdk 17 which are required from 0.73
- [ci] use `npx pod-install` rather than `pod install` and fix hermes-engine podfile.lock update issue
- [tools] update SetupReactNativeNightly script

# Test Plan

ci passed in #23961 (https://github.com/expo/expo/pull/23961/checks)

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