[core] Move `defineProperty` and `ObjectDeallocator` to common code (#23860)

# Why

Moves `defineProperty` and `ObjectDeallocator` to common code.

# Test Plan

- bare-expo ✅
- native-tester

[core] Move `defineProperty` and `ObjectDeallocator` to common code (#23860)

# Why

Moves `defineProperty` and `ObjectDeallocator` to common code.

# Test Plan

- bare-expo ✅
- native-tester ✅

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