[packages] fix react-native 0.73 compatibility [1/3] (#24018)

# Why

fix react-native 0.73 compatibility. these are for AGP 8 support - https://github.com/react-native-community/discussions-and-pr

[packages] fix react-native 0.73 compatibility [1/3] (#24018)

# Why

fix react-native 0.73 compatibility. these are for AGP 8 support - https://github.com/react-native-community/discussions-and-proposals/issues/671#issuecomment-1677632448

# How

- [packages][bare-expo] set jvm version only if AGP < 8
- [av][dev-launcher] fix AGP 8 non transitive R issue
- [dev-client][dev-launcher][dev-menu][core][notifications] fix AGP 8 non default buildConfig issue

# Test Plan

ci passed in #23961 (https://github.com/expo/expo/pull/23961/checks)

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