[expo-dev-menu][android] Extract interfaces (#9854)

# Why

Somehow we want to detect if someone has dev-menu installed but we don't wont to include the `expo-dev-menu` package.
So we need to extr

[expo-dev-menu][android] Extract interfaces (#9854)

# Why

Somehow we want to detect if someone has dev-menu installed but we don't wont to include the `expo-dev-menu` package.
So we need to extract some of the dev-menu interfaces to another package.

I've also fixed dev-menu items caching.

# Test Plan

- run `bare-expo` ✅

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