[dev-client][iOS] Fix remote debugging crashes the application (#17248)

# Why

Closes ENG-4755.

# How

It turns out that we have to override the `RTCDevSettings` module, otherwise, some place

[dev-client][iOS] Fix remote debugging crashes the application (#17248)

# Why

Closes ENG-4755.

# How

It turns out that we have to override the `RTCDevSettings` module, otherwise, some places in the CPP codebase will think that we turn on the remote debugging for the menu/launcher bridges.
Also, I have to force props to update when `isDebuggingRemotely`was changed.

# Test Plan

- bare-expo on both platforms ✅

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