[go][sqlite] fix broken state for ios expo go (#23885)

# Why

ios expo-go has a couple error in the mean time, this pr is to address them all.

# How

- `pod install` error: outdated podfile.l

[go][sqlite] fix broken state for ios expo go (#23885)

# Why

ios expo-go has a couple error in the mean time, this pr is to address them all.

# How

- `pod install` error: outdated podfile.lock since #23858
- build error from sqlite, since expo-go mixes ios builtin sqlite3 and community sqlite3. for example, sqlite3 `create_filename` is different. we should use older sqlite3 to make sure everything is compatible.
- `char *(*create_filename)(const char*,const char*,const char*,
int,const char**);`
- `const char *(*create_filename)(const char*,const char*,const char*,
int,const char**);`
- missing some files to build for versioned expo-go, when testing with versioned expo-go. it will have runtime error because of missing modules.

# Test Plan

- ci passed
- versioned expo go + NCL `EXPO_SDK_VERSION=UNVERSIONED npx expo start`

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