[go] Fix hermes inspector crash from vscode-expo (#23271)

# Why

when vscode-expo sending the `Runtime.callFunctionOn` event, it will crash ios expo go.
close ENG-9172

# How

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[go] Fix hermes inspector crash from vscode-expo (#23271)

# Why

when vscode-expo sending the `Runtime.callFunctionOn` event, it will crash ios expo go.
close ENG-9172

# How

compared this on top of expo-go and expo-dev-client, both reaching the line `throw std::runtime_error("unknown object id " + objId);`. only expo-go will crash the app because the exception is not caught. this happens on the new expo-go, even the older sdks (that's why this pr includes to backporting changes).
as the comment said, i still not figure out why the `std::runtime_error` is not caught by the `std::exception`. but the trick works

# Test Plan

ios expo go + sdk49 + vscode-expo debugging

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