[android][ios] Upgrade react-native to 0.67.2 in Expo Go (#16400)

# Why

upgrade for sdk 45

# How

## upgrade react native fork

code in https://github.com/expo/react-native/tree/sdk-45
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[android][ios] Upgrade react-native to 0.67.2 in Expo Go (#16400)

# Why

upgrade for sdk 45

# How

## upgrade react native fork

code in https://github.com/expo/react-native/tree/sdk-45
basically cherry pick most necessary commits from sdk-44 branch but not these two:

1. https://github.com/expo/react-native/commit/125b36ac6d76e702bea4d7c41a8a402d68cdb1f1: because ExpoKit is already deprecated.
2. https://github.com/expo/react-native/commit/82d3ff5218cc576b5c7ea44c7adbf8b5aa5d985c: [use the official way to set metro server address](https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/e2b5b6504cb4dee8f2ec67f1d3a410801e1ca09a)

## migrate project setup

basically reference from: https://react-native-community.github.io/upgrade-helper/?from=0.64.2&to=0.67.2

## other build errors or launch errors

just to deal with these mess one by one.

# Test Plan

- [android] unversioned expo-go build + launch + load unversioned NCL
- [ios] unversioned expo-go build + launch + load unversioned NCL

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