Upgrade to react-native 0.67 (#16038)

# Why

try to bump react-native version for sdk 45

# How

- [x] upgrade package.json version to `[email protected]`
- [x] apply changes from [upgrade

Upgrade to react-native 0.67 (#16038)

# Why

try to bump react-native version for sdk 45

# How

- [x] upgrade package.json version to `[email protected]`
- [x] apply changes from [upgrade helper](https://react-native-community.github.io/upgrade-helper/?from=0.66.4&to=0.67.2)
- [x] since 0.67 upgrade to gradle 7 and remove `maven` plugin. ~this pr also migrate packages to use `maven-publish` plugin~ landed in separated pr https://github.com/expo/expo/pull/16080
- [x] [bare-expo][android] maven plugin from third-party: `react-native-appearance`. ~consider it's archived and deprecated, how to deal with this.~ since we are going to drop sdk 42, i've removed this dependency.
- [x] [bare-expo][android] maven plugin from third-party: `react-native-shared-element`. https://github.com/IjzerenHein/react-native-shared-element/pull/90
- [x] [dev-launcher][android] having a `DevLauncherDevSupportManager.kt` for 0.67 and passing null to the new `SurfaceDelegateFactory`. simply to fix the build error first.
- [x] [dev-menu][android] it will crash from missing libjsc.so in hermes mode. ~workaround to use jsc mode first~. fix pr: https://github.com/expo/expo/pull/16099

# Test Plan

- bare-expo launch

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