Upgrade vendored reanimated to 3.1.0 (#22570)

Update reanimated to v3 (#22218)

# Why

Right now running Expo Go causes this issue:



Update reanimated to v3 (#22218)

# Why

Right now running Expo Go causes this issue:



A fix for this is to upgrade vendored reanimated to V3.

# How

``` et update-vendored-module -m react-native-reanimated -c 3.0.2```

CC @Kudo
A word of warning:

We saw some issues during the linking process on Android with this new version.

```
ld: error: undefined symbol:
facebook::hermes::HermesRuntime::enableSamplingProfiler()
>>> referenced by HermesSamplingProfiler.cpp:17
(/Users/aleksander/Work/Expo/expo/react-native-lab/react-native/ReactAndroid/src/main/jni/react/hermes/instrumentation/HermesSamplingProfiler.cpp:17)
```

We believe this is caused by missing .so files in
```

react-native-lab/react-native/ReactAndroid/build/intermediates/cxx/Debug/******/obj/arm64-v8a
```
In particular,
```
libhermes_executor.so
```
is sometimes missing during the build process.

A current fix for this was to deep clean the repo and caches, which seemed to fix the issue, or build hermes manually from gradle. Reanimated v3 uses prefabs which can cause the issue, so we might need to add some dependsOn to gradle if this occurs for you during building home.

# Test Plan

Tested using native-component-list in Expo Go on both platforms.

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