feat(config plugins): better support out of tree support (#22209)

# Why

Fix various validation issues when using `nexpo prebuild --platform
windows --template
https://github.com/microsoft/react

feat(config plugins): better support out of tree support (#22209)

# Why

Fix various validation issues when using `nexpo prebuild --platform
windows --template
https://github.com/microsoft/react-native-windows-samples/tree/main/samples/AppServiceDemo`

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- [ ] Documentation is up to date to reflect these changes (eg:
https://docs.expo.dev and README.md).
- [ ] Conforms with the [Documentation Writing Style
Guide](https://github.com/expo/expo/blob/main/guides/Expo%20Documentation%20Writing%20Style%20Guide.md)
- [ ] This diff will work correctly for `expo prebuild` & EAS Build (eg:
updated a module plugin).

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Co-authored-by: Expo Bot <[email protected]>

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chore: migrate config, config-plugins, config-types, prebuild-config (#17958)