[templates][config-plugins][dev-server] aligned hermesEnabled property (#21067)

# Why

react-native 0.71 introduces `hermesEnabled` gradle property which is conflict with the original `expo.jsEngi

[templates][config-plugins][dev-server] aligned hermesEnabled property (#21067)

# Why

react-native 0.71 introduces `hermesEnabled` gradle property which is conflict with the original `expo.jsEngine` in gradle.properties. this pr tries to align the `hermesEnabled` as upstream.
close ENG-7228

# How

deprecate `expo.jsEngine` in **gradle.properties** and use `hermesEnabled` instead.

# Test Plan

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