feat(cli)!: set node and babel env for CLI commands (#21337)

# Why

- User's may want to dynamically configure Metro or their Expo Config
file to work differently when bundling for production env

feat(cli)!: set node and babel env for CLI commands (#21337)

# Why

- User's may want to dynamically configure Metro or their Expo Config
file to work differently when bundling for production environments, they
can now do this by utilizing the standard `NODE_ENV` environment
variable. We've been doing this with Webpack since it was introduced.
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# How

- Set `NODE_ENV` and `BABEL_ENV` environment variables to `development`
or `production` in `start`, `export`, `customize`, `install`, `run:ios`,
`run:android`, `config`, `prebuild` commands based on the input mode.
- This can be overwritten by setting `NODE_ENV` and `BABEL_ENV` manually
before running. `BABEL_ENV` will be set to `NODE_ENV` if defined.
- Most commands can safely default to assuming `development`.
- Only thing that this doesn't cover is `npx react-native bundle` and
`npx react-native start` (building from Xcode/Android Studio). We'll
need to change these commands in the future but it shouldn't be blocking
for this PR.


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- [ ] Documentation is up to date to reflect these changes (eg:
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Guide](https://github.com/expo/expo/blob/main/guides/Expo%20Documentation%20Writing%20Style%20Guide.md)
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updated a module plugin).

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